If you ask me, I would say no. No guy is worth crying over, but then again I’m just speaking for myself here and others might have a different point of view. This topic can be a little subjective.
Tears are part of a relationship just as much as arguments and fights are. If you ask anyone, there is no one that’ll tell you they haven’t shed a few tears over the ones they love.
Every couple out there has had their fair share of tears shed over the span of their relationship, whether the tears are shed because of fights, whether the tears are tears of happiness or because tears are shed over the end of a relationship.
Now, tears of happiness, I have no objection there. By all means if something makes you happy and you want to cry about it, go ahead. As long as you’re happy. Tears shed over fights are normal – you fight, you cry about it, you deal with it, you move on. But it’s the tears shed over a break-up is where I would personally draw the line.
I’ve seen people who can cry for days or even weeks over the end of a relationship. Usually a lot of the crying is done if they are the ones that got dumped. Which got me thinking if a guy is really worth all that trouble?
There are a couple of reasons why no guy is worth your tears at the end of a relationship, one of which being if he was all that fantastic to begin with, why the break-up and all that heartache in the first place?
Other reasons why are:
* Things Happen For A Reason:
If the relationship as come to an end, there’s gotta be a good reason for it. Relationships don’t end for no reason or on the spur of the moment. If a break-up happens for the better, then why cry too much about it when it’s probably for the best? Cry about it if you must and let it out of your system, but pick yourself up and move on quickly because things always happen for a reason.
If You Got Dumped, Then Good Riddance To Him:
If your man has dumped you (especially if you’ve been good to him), then I say good riddance to him. If he’s foolish enough to dump you and not appreciate how good you are, then the last thing you should do is shed buckets of tears over him. That would make you foolish then.
If He Isn’t Weeping, Why Are You?:
Do you think the guy is crying and weeping his heart out in his room or to his friends the way you are? If he isn’t, they why are you?
* You Deserve Better:
Not all relationships are meant for ever lasting love. Which is probably why they say you have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince. If things aren’t working out, why settle for less when you can deserve the best?
* Life’s Too Short To Be Miserable:
Life is way too short to spend it being depressed and crying for days or weeks over some guy who broke your heart.
* What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger:
And I couldn’t agree more. I believe that everything you go through in life makes you the person you are today and every experience makes you a stronger person. People are born survivors, and you world doesn’t have to crumble just because a relationship has soured.
* Life Goes On:
And so should you. When something has come to an end, the strong look forward and make the best of the situation. They learn from it, deal with it and move on from it to better things. And so should you.
Every experience has something to be learnt from it and the experience just makes you a stronger person. It’s a test to see what kind of person you’re made of – are you strong enough to overcome it? Or do you let it overcome you and spiral into depression? It also helps you better understand what you want out of a relationship.
So when a relationship has ended, cry about it, but learn to pick yourself up and get it together quickly. Life’s too short to waste it crying over a guy and believe me, you will emerge a stronger person.
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