3/12/08

How to know that your man loves you...

How to know that your man loves you

Watching your mans actions and not listening to his words is the determing factor on telling if he loves you or not. A man can tell you all that he wants how much he loves you, but if his actions do not back up his words, then you just know he is not telling you the truth.
Perhaps he loves you, but he is not in love with you, yes there is a huge difference. Some of the easines signs to determine id he loves you or not are...
* When a man loves a woman he treats her equally.
* He treats her like his queen and is always there for her.
* When she needs someone by her side, he is standing there.
* He never hits or belittles her.
* He is supportive and understanding.
* He shows her with his actions.
* He is loving and affectionate.
* He makes you feel special.
*He listens to what you have to say.
* He showers you with compliments.
* He thinks about your feelings.
* His friends and family all respect you.
* He sticks up for you at all times.
* He is interested in your wants and needs.
* He asks for your opinions.
* He takes good care of you.
* How he looks at you.
* He tries to impress you.
* He calls you frequently.
* He spends more time with you then anyone else.
A man that loves a woman is more likely to show you with his actions rather then his words. Since most men are not go good about talking about their feelings then it is better to watch how he treats you. He will be eager to introduce his friends and family to you and to meet your friends and family as well. He looks at you and you just melt. You can see it in their eyes that they are in love with you. They way a man looks at a woman that he loves is a special and meaningful experience and most woman just know.
If he remembers the date that you meet and your anniversary and birthday, it is a sign that he loves you as well. However if he does not remember, don't take it to personal. Many men are bad with dates and simply don't remember dates like woman do. Don't play games and "test him" on dates. It will only make you upset and make him feel bad. Remind him a week in advance that your big day is coming and then he is sure to remember. If he does simple things like opening doors for you and pulling out your chair it is a sign that he is a gentlemen and perhaps he is in love with you. When a man is in love he wants to cater to his woman and treat her like a queen. Doing little things like this is his way of showing you he cares about you, so don't let them go unnoticed.
If he always shows up on time for your dates it is also a sign that he is eager to be with you. He is watching the clock and counting down the time until your date. So when he is on time make sure you notice it, after all you don't want to be sitting around waiting for him. If you are out and his eyes are only on you, it is a great sign. If there are plenty of beautiful woman around and his eyes never wonder, then you are the only one for him.
Another simple thing that a man in love may do is turning off his cell phone while out with you. He does not want any distractions while out with you. Simply look at the way he treats you. If he tells you many private things then it is a sign that he trusts you. A man might not be so great at telling you his feelings, so make sure you watch his actions. We all know the saying "actions speak louder then words" and in a mans world it is true. The way he talks about you and treats you is the best way to determine if he truly loves you or not.