Date a boy who travel

Date a boy who travels. But really? Who wants a boy who think of little else but holidays and trips, all the time? When conversations always turn to cheap travel deals, new holiday spots, and yet another dream of taking a holiday? Why date a boy who lives frugally and saves hard, only to splurge it on air tickets to far-flung places of the places.

Well, humour the boy who travels, just for a second.

You might not be impressed by his practical clothes nor tattered backpack. Neither by his many weekends to out-of-town places and day trips. He might not have a flashy car bring you around, or a big watch to impress the people around you.

But behind that earnest smile and those twinkling eyes, lies a curious mind that will want to know you as you are, right now, and can take you places, right after.

Date a boy who travels. Don’t laugh at him when he exclaim in delight at common things at ordinary places. Take a closer look at that fern of a tree which has stood its ground for hundreds of years. Pray with him at the temple which has guarded the settlement over generations of villagers. Share his packet of fried beans found only at street markets at that part of the world, and no where else.

For he who travels has long developed a deep sense of appreciation for all things around him, big and small, new and old.

And that includes you. Be lighthearted and be your true self, when you are with the boy who travels. He will share your beauty, forgive your flaws and love you all the same, just the way he did with many others he has met, all over the world.

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Date a girl who travel

Date a girl who travels. Date a girl who is always excited to plan her next getaway, instead of being stuck at home wasting her time away. She can’t contain her thoughts and can’t sit still in one place. she finds excitement in going to a place different than where she currently is.

Find a girl who travels. She’s out there reading the latest issue of a random travel magazine or sitting in a bookstore or library floor reading this book about David, the Namsan Tower, the Brandenburg Gate, or St. Basil’s. She’s scanning the pages with great interest, with her nose almost poking the pages. She probably wants to be transported to those places. You’re most likely right.

She’s the girl coming out from an embassy, stoked and thrilled to see her approved Visa. She might be absent-minded, thinking of how she’s going to pack all her things and to fix her itinerary. Don’t worry. Approach her. Tell her about this place you’ve always wanted to go to. She’ll gladly give you some food for thought. Ask her out to have some coffee. Encourage her to speak about her previous travels and her future ones. She’ll gladly tell you everything.

Ask her out again.

It’s easy to date a girl who travels. You don’t have to buy her tickets to Japan or to Spain, although if you do, she’ll gladly take it. How about taking her out on a spontaneous road trip to a beach where both of you can enjoy a relaxing swim? You can also watch a feel-good movie one rainy afternoon, something like Eat, Pray, Love, where she can gloriously praise about the beauty of Italy, India, and Indonesia. You can even watch Fast and Furious 5. She loves Brazil.

Fall in love with a girl who travels. She understands, respects, and believes in the importance of culture. Having been to the place where they come from, she treats people with admiration. She doesn’t see ill in anyone —- only the good. A girl who travels appreciates differences, because she knows that differences make everybody special. You are special.

Love a girl who travels. You’ll get into arguments most of the time. You might not hear from her for some days, since she’s probably in some place getting some peace of mind. Yet, just like her usual self, she’ll be coming back. The same way she finds comfort in going back home after days of traveling, she finds solace in being back in your arms. No one knows her as much as anyone else.

Marry a girl who travels. She might be awake at night surfing the Internet, with the browser on Lonely Planet or National Geographic Traveler. She might be wearing the same clothes three times in a week, but it’s a good thing. She’s saving up for your out-of-town wedding anniversary celebration. She might surprise you one day, with your suitcases ready and your approved leave of absence for work. She’ll take you to France and make you love each other more.

Grow old with a girl who travels. She’ll tell your children how beautiful the world is. She’ll tell them that despite all wars and all conflicts happening in the world, it is still a place to find happiness in. She’ll tell your grandchildren stories of the world in your time. And as you listen to her tell stories about the past, you find yourself going back to the time you met her. You’ll realize that the best journey in your life was having to meet such an intelligent and beautiful woman.

And she will look at you, smile, and realize the very same thing.

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JIKA ANDA SUKA.....

1) BERDOA DAN BERTAWAKAL

Dalam fatihah yang kita baca sekurangnya 17 kali dalam solat pun, kita sentiasa berikrar “Iyya kana’budu waiyya kanasta’iin”. Hanya ALLAH kita sembah, dan hanya pada ALLAH kita mohon pertolongan. 

Tunaikanlah solat 2 rakaat, tadah tangan kepadaNya, mengadu dan mintalah pada ALLAH. Bukankah Nabi SAW dah ajar kita bahawa, kalau kita mengalami apa-apa kesulitan atau kalau kita ada apa-apa hajat, kerjakanlah solat. Bukankah ALLAH ada berfirman dalam Quran…

Lihat surah al-Baqarah ayat 45 : “Dan pohonlah pertolongan dengan sabar dan solat….”

Dalam sebuah hadith disebutkan bahawa, apabila seseorang itu mengkehendaki sesuatu hajat, samaada hajat duniawi atau hajat ukhrawi, yang berkaitan dengan ALLAH SWT atau dengan manusia, hendaklah dia mengambil wudhuk dengan sempurna, MENDIRIKAN SOLAT 2 rakaat, kemudian memuji ALLAH SWT dan berselawat ke atas Nabi SAW. Selepas itu berdoalah pada ALLAH SWT mohon hajat diperkenankan.

2) AJAK JUMPA DAN PERKENALKAN KAWAN LELAKI DGN MAK AYAH KITA

Tunjukkan bahawa anda serius dalam perhubungan anda dengan dia. Kalau anda belum pernah perkenalkan kawan lelaki  anda pada mak ayah anda, anda harus lakukan sesuatu.

Cuba tengok apa reaksi dia bila anda cadangkan perkara ini dengan dia. Kalau reaksi dia OK dan macam excited jer, maknanya kawan lelaki  anda tu serius dengan anda. Kalau dia cuba berhelah dan bagi macam2 alasan, maknanya dia mungkin masih belum bersedia . Atau mungkin juga dia tidak serius dan nak main2 saja dengan anda.

So, kenalpasti dulu, pada tahap mana kawan lelaki anda tu serius dalam perhubungannya. Kalau dia betul-betul serius, barulah anda boleh pujuk dia. Kalau dia nampak macam nak main2 saja dengan anda, pada saya,tiada gunanya pun anda pujuk dia. Sebab dia hanya akan bagi macam2 alasan dan helah. Nasihat saya, kalau ada lelaki yang macam tu, tinggalkan saja dia. Dan cari lain sajalah. Kumbang bukannya seekor kan?

3) BERTERUS TERANG DAN HINT2

Pada saya, tiada jalan lain yang paling bagus dan berkesan, anda kena berterus terang dengannya. Ajaklah dia berjumpa di mana-mana dan berterus teranglah sajalah dari hati ke hati dengannya. Luahkan semua perasaan dan rancangan anda pada dia dan if anda malu untuk berkata2 apa kata anda hint2 dengan melakukan sesuatu yg surprise or tunjukkan body languange anda. lelaki mesti perasan. Saya yakin, kalau dia betul-betul serius dengan anda, maka dia akan dapat berbincang sesuatu yang positif tentang status perhubungan dan perancangan masa depannya dengan anda. Masa tu, kalau dia kata dia masih belum bersedia, tinggalkan dia...cari yg lain kerana mereka memang tak ingin nak bersama dgn anda....move on bebeh!!!!

P/S girls, ada kawan2 aku dah buat semua perkara di atas, yg lain nya mereka  berserah pada illahi hanya ALLAH tahu apa yg terbaik buat pada mereka dan ada juga yg telah selamat berkahwin & bekerluarga....

Dayang Nurfaizah - Bisikan Rinduku (OST Dahlia)

gambar lama...cite lama

Suddenly ternampak gambar ni in my pen drive,,,wooo gambar lama in 2007 now 2013..6 years already..he's already married with 2 lovely kids...yg tgh2 tu my sister masa ni br abis blajar SPM. so dia mengekor je mana aku berdating. im so happy because he's found someone better frm me. even masa break dulu mcm tak rela je..tp bila pikir2 balik its good for us coz allah know the best for me :-). Thanks to him coz
even sekejap but learn something frm him and until now pun i masih melakukannya...sbb dulu aku tak reti nak buat perkara2 mcm tu but sekarang org panggil aku 'queen' surprise  and sgt la romantik...( aku memang  romantik sbb di lahirkan bulan 6, bintang cancer) yg terkena surprise aku tu jgn la kena heart attack eh...

p/s 
sorry bro...if u nengok my blog and ternampak your face dlm my blog. minta ampun dan maaf.sharing is caring..peace yo!

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