A women is like a tea bag, you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water
7/5/13
3/1/13
Killer Soalan " kau dengan family perempuan tu dah kenal ke"
Tetiba datang idea untuk keluarkan entri cinta.macamana nak tahu lelaki tu serius atau tidak dalam percintaan?
Paling aku suka tanya satu soalan je,”kau dengan family perempuan tu dah kenal ke? Agak killer soalan tapi itu yang aku suka tanya.Pada pendapat aku( walaupun aku perempuan) lelaki mula serius dalam perhubungan bila dia berani bertemu dengan keluarga wanita itu sendiri.
Umur dalam lingkungan aku ni dah tak main nak cinta-cinta monyet..bergayut sampai berjam2, sms berderet2 berdating sakan sampai balik tgh malam...owhhhh dah tak main la... for me my age dah fikir pasal komitment....yes berkahwin.
Bagi aku if u all bercinta ataupun tak korang akan tahu sendiri la...bila lelaki mula memikirkan nak serius dengan seseorang semestinya dia sudah berani berhadapan dengan keluarga si gadis sebab dalam apa jua keadaan diakhirnya nanti siapa watak penting dalam perhubungan korang adalah ayah dia sebagai wali. Namun untuk lelaki nak berkenalan dengan keluarga perempuan tersebut bukan perkara mudah.
Bagi aku if u all bercinta ataupun tak korang akan tahu sendiri la...bila lelaki mula memikirkan nak serius dengan seseorang semestinya dia sudah berani berhadapan dengan keluarga si gadis sebab dalam apa jua keadaan diakhirnya nanti siapa watak penting dalam perhubungan korang adalah ayah dia sebagai wali. Namun untuk lelaki nak berkenalan dengan keluarga perempuan tersebut bukan perkara mudah.
Bagi aku lah lelaki yg berani berhadapan dengan keluarga pihak perempuan itu adalah sangat matang, berani dan sungguh gentleman.
Memang nampak berbeza sikap lelaki yang dah biasa jumpa family wanita tersebut berbanding yang masih di awang-awangan. Dari apa yang aku perhatikan kebiasaannya lelaki yang dah kenal dengan keluarga pasangannnya lebih serius mencorakkan hubungan mereka. Oh, mungkin istilah lebih serius mencorakkan hubungan itu melibatkan kedua-dua belah pihak lebih elok.
Apapun, seperti yang dinyatakan bukan mudah nak buat keputusan kenal dengan keluarga kalau hubungan itu masih awal. Ia perlu dilalui dengan pelbagai langkah untuk menstabilkan keadaan dan memahami satu sama lain. Bagi yang lelaki bila sudah serius bertemu dengan keluarga si dia, tanpa kepura-puraan dan sikap hipokrit itu dah kira mantap. Kenapa tanpa sikap berpura-pura sebabnya setelah berkahwin nanti bukan korang hanya berkahwin dengan pasangan tetapi mengenali juga seluruh ahli keluarga mereka.
Ini pandangan peribadi aku dalam mengukur sejauh mana lelaki itu serius dalam perhubungan yang dijalinkan. Mengenali keluarga itu akan menunjukkan sikap hormat-menghormati dalam perhubungan. Sokongan keluarga adalah amat penting untuk menjadikan hubungan itu lebih baik
Biarlah keluarga tahu siapa yg kita berkawan. tak perlu berahsia. kerana restu kedua ibu bapa amat penting.oh yer bertawakal, berusaha dan berdoa pada Allah. Dia hanya tahu jodoh terbaik untuk kita.Insyallah.
Kepada yang sedang melaluinya semoga berterusan ke alam perkahwinan dan aku berdoa semoga kalian bahagia dan kepada kenalan-kenalan aku kalau korang nak kahwin sila jemput aku.Insyallah aku akan datang dan ambik berkat supaya tahun ini jugak aku akan berkahwin...hehe ;)
2/27/13
Oppss i Did it again!!!!!!!!
owhhhh omg...i miss my blog...yup walau keje melambak2...dan kepala otak dah miung im still here...still nak menulis lagi but kekangan masa, byk idea yg datang mencurah2..tp tak ter buat..hehe...
ok this week 3 March 2013, my sis engagement..tahu apa maksud engage? yer bertunang umur 26 thn dah bertunang...aku? bilanya... arghhh stressssss................sggggggtttttttttt
so bz tu tak de la..adik aku la bz nya...aku cuma sponsor door gift for our guest...
2 khemah utk makan 150 org...ewwwwwww mcm nak nikah je.
ishhh...ishhh if aku la..memang private..dan aku tak jemput sampai beratus2 jemputan ni..buang duit je.enough for 50 pax...hehe.( ye la duit sendiri kan)
terus terang aku katakan bila keadaan ini berlaku...arghh hati ku terusik. dan tiba2 terasa nak kahwin esok.....!!!!!!!!!! im serius ni....anyone? hahahahaha
ok this week 3 March 2013, my sis engagement..tahu apa maksud engage? yer bertunang umur 26 thn dah bertunang...aku? bilanya... arghhh stressssss................sggggggtttttttttt
so bz tu tak de la..adik aku la bz nya...aku cuma sponsor door gift for our guest...
2 khemah utk makan 150 org...ewwwwwww mcm nak nikah je.
ishhh...ishhh if aku la..memang private..dan aku tak jemput sampai beratus2 jemputan ni..buang duit je.enough for 50 pax...hehe.( ye la duit sendiri kan)
terus terang aku katakan bila keadaan ini berlaku...arghh hati ku terusik. dan tiba2 terasa nak kahwin esok.....!!!!!!!!!! im serius ni....anyone? hahahahaha
1/17/13
Empat Cara Untuk Mendapat Cinta
Hati perempuan takut untuk membuat pilihan, takut tersalah pilih. Namun, mungkin juga perempuan harus mengubah diri dahulu sebelum menerima cinta daripada si lelaki.
Sesetengah sifat mungkin hanya akan menjengkelkan para lelaki, namun ada juga sifat yang boleh menarik perhatian mereka secara tidak langsung.
Pertama : Berhenti Jual Mahal
Untuk membuatkan lelaki yang anda sayang terpikat dengan anda, anda perlu berhenti jual mahal dan beri dia ruang untuk hampiri anda. Lelaki selalunya akan mula jauhi wanita yang selalu jual mahal.
Ada juga yang tidak pernah putus asa tetapi dia akan mula jauhi anda apabila dia terjumpa wanita yang boleh menerima dia. Berikan dia peluang untuk buktikan cinta dia terhadap anda.
Kedua : Jangan Terlalu Berharap Memiliki Lelaki Yang Sempurna
Lelaki yang sempurna tidak wujud tetapi anda boleh wujudkan lelaki sempurna untuk diri anda. Anda boleh bantu lelaki yang anda suka untuk jadi lelaki sempurna buat diri anda.
Dari sini, anda akan dapat cinta yang suci dari pasangan anda.
Ketiga : Sentiasa Menjaga Penampilan Diri
Apabila anda jaga penampilan diri dari segi pakaian dan tutur kata, lelaki akan hormat pada diri anda. Seterusnya lelaki akan mula berminat untuk hampiri anda dan berikan anda cinta yang ikhlas.
Jika anda bersihkan diri dan hati anda, anda pasti akan terima cinta yang suci dari seorang lelaki.
Keempat : Berikan Peluang Pada Setiap Lelaki Yang Ingin Hampiri Anda
Apabila ada lelaki yang ingin hampiri diri anda, berikan dia peluang untuk kenali diri anda. Saya pasti, akhirnya anda akan dapat menemui cinta sejati dari lelaki yang benar–benar ikhlas ingin menjaga dan mencintai diri anda.
Apa yang pasti, wanita harus tahu apa yang diinginkan oleh diri mereka. Seterusnya barulah mereka boleh membuat pilihan yang tepat dalam memilih pasangan hidup akan lelaki yang benar-benar mencintai mereka.
1/5/13
Mestikah punya azam setiap tiba tahun baru?
Mestikah punya azam setiap kali tiba tahun baru? Perlukan aku duk kat tepi jendela sambil memandang bintang membuat 'wish' utk apa yg aku mahu capai setiap tahun?Azam thn ini? apa yaaaaa.....hehe
Tahun ini 2013 i just want to be happy..thats all :)Berjaya dlm hidup? masih 60%...tak puas hati lagi...miliki segala2nya? tidak lagi..sesetengahnya mengatakan kalo aku tak kahwin pun tak pe..lagi happy hidup single..huh! alang siti nurhaliza kahwin..Si Nabil raja lawak yg tak handsome tu pun kahwin.Inikan aku yg tidak seglamer mcm diorang.Helooooo..gila ke? Bila aku kata kat semua org yg tiada siapa org yg hendakkan aku.Ramai org tak percaya...adoiiiiii. Bila aku cakap belum ada jodoh.ramai org kata aku memilih ....aiseh,
Adakah korang ingat aku antilelaki dan mengatakan aku lesbian?.....aku lurus mcm pembaris dan masih belum sampai ke tahap itu lagi dan masih waras beriman kan islam, walau kesabaran aku di tarah2 oleh lelaki dan kekecewaan pasti di dalam hati..Dan kata adik beradik aku sebagai Andartu...ya jodoh mesti di cari. Ya emak dan abah...akan aku usahakan pencarian bakal suami ;) setiap tahun baru opismate kata " celebrate mana?" dan aku menjawap 'umah je'. kadang2 org ingat aku zalim pada diri sendiri, tak beri peluang pada hati ini. Sebenarnya jauh di lubuk hati teringin benar ingin meraikan bersama si dia.Perempuan mana yg tidak mahu? aku perempuan normal. Setiap kali ia hadir, tuhan pinjamkan kepada aku sebentar cuma kemudian lenyap semula. Kadang2 aku pikir tuhan tak sayangkan aku kerana terlalu kecewa dgn semua ini. tp bila di tikar sembahyang dan aku berfikir semuala kewarasan itu, aku sedar semula dan pasti hikmah atas semua terjadi. Tuhan nak berikan kepada aku sesuatu yg terbaik. insyallah.
Jadi azam tahun baru..aku malas dah nak pikirkan hanya aku fikir aku mahu happy.walau usia dah mcm buah ranum masak tetapi aku sebenarnya ingin bercinta sebernar-benarnya dan cinta itu bukan cinta main main.bagi aku bersedialah bercinta bila hati sudah terbuka utk bersama dgn si dia dan jgn sesekali2 ingin bersama dgn seseorang kerana hati sunyi..anda akan pasti kecewa nanti.Persoalannya dgn siapa aku bercinta nanti? Wallahualam....
Tahun ini 2013 i just want to be happy..thats all :)Berjaya dlm hidup? masih 60%...tak puas hati lagi...miliki segala2nya? tidak lagi..sesetengahnya mengatakan kalo aku tak kahwin pun tak pe..lagi happy hidup single..huh! alang siti nurhaliza kahwin..Si Nabil raja lawak yg tak handsome tu pun kahwin.Inikan aku yg tidak seglamer mcm diorang.Helooooo..gila ke? Bila aku kata kat semua org yg tiada siapa org yg hendakkan aku.Ramai org tak percaya...adoiiiiii. Bila aku cakap belum ada jodoh.ramai org kata aku memilih ....aiseh,
Adakah korang ingat aku antilelaki dan mengatakan aku lesbian?.....aku lurus mcm pembaris dan masih belum sampai ke tahap itu lagi dan masih waras beriman kan islam, walau kesabaran aku di tarah2 oleh lelaki dan kekecewaan pasti di dalam hati..Dan kata adik beradik aku sebagai Andartu...ya jodoh mesti di cari. Ya emak dan abah...akan aku usahakan pencarian bakal suami ;) setiap tahun baru opismate kata " celebrate mana?" dan aku menjawap 'umah je'. kadang2 org ingat aku zalim pada diri sendiri, tak beri peluang pada hati ini. Sebenarnya jauh di lubuk hati teringin benar ingin meraikan bersama si dia.Perempuan mana yg tidak mahu? aku perempuan normal. Setiap kali ia hadir, tuhan pinjamkan kepada aku sebentar cuma kemudian lenyap semula. Kadang2 aku pikir tuhan tak sayangkan aku kerana terlalu kecewa dgn semua ini. tp bila di tikar sembahyang dan aku berfikir semuala kewarasan itu, aku sedar semula dan pasti hikmah atas semua terjadi. Tuhan nak berikan kepada aku sesuatu yg terbaik. insyallah.
Jadi azam tahun baru..aku malas dah nak pikirkan hanya aku fikir aku mahu happy.walau usia dah mcm buah ranum masak tetapi aku sebenarnya ingin bercinta sebernar-benarnya dan cinta itu bukan cinta main main.bagi aku bersedialah bercinta bila hati sudah terbuka utk bersama dgn si dia dan jgn sesekali2 ingin bersama dgn seseorang kerana hati sunyi..anda akan pasti kecewa nanti.Persoalannya dgn siapa aku bercinta nanti? Wallahualam....
1/1/13
sebelum penutup 2012..aku telah lakukan...
Apahal la tajuk atas tu mcm la aku lakukan perkara yg jahat eh? tak la..aku lakukan perkara yg aku tak pernah lakukan, so aku lakukan utk sekali shj dan hanya utk yg istimewa...just want to share with u all,
.aku gelarkan dia .Mr Labu..yup my good frend not future husband yet hehe.. ;)
aku nak buat surprised kat dia..hmm dia ni keje kat Sudan, area Khartoum so korang paham2 je la...setahun 2-3 kali je balik. and i salute him coz he's so gentleman datang bertandang kat umah aku je...( if my parents ada ye)
ok baru2 ni dia dah balik malaysia on 21 Dec tp dia terus fly ke Penang dulu jumpa parents dia.
and we try to jumpa masa yg sesuai so byk kali tukar masa dan tarikh. On 29-30 Dec aku pi Melaka..gathering with my all gf. so he want to meet me on 30 Dec kat umah aku. coz masa tu aku dah sampai kl. actually aku dah plan cuti on 31 Dec tp half day ptg. nak tahu naper? sbb nak buat surprise kat dia on that day....jeng..jeng..jeng so aku plan baik punya....
for me its keje gila tau..sbb aku tak pernah buat...seriusly. aku minta pandangan pada seseorang yg arif psl hal ni..mana lah tahu kot2 dia tak suka aku buat kejutan..aku gak yg malu yg tertonggek2 nanti. tp ramai penyokong2 setia aku..wahhhhh.
Yes on that day 31st Dec pkl 2 ptg aku sampai kat KL Sentral and bas aku pkl 3 ptg....hwaaaaaaaaaaa...1 jam menunggu mcm org bodo kat kl sentral tu...peh tu panas yg amat sbb ramai sgt org! adehhhh then u all nak tahu aku tawaf satu kl sentral tu kat 5-6 kali.nak kata lapar tak sbb aku dah lunch kat opis awal2.
lepas tu aku start dah meroyan kat sms to my frend Gmah " aku tgu lama kat kl sentral ni...dah la tgu bas lama, dekat 1 jam tau..grrrr" then she reply to me " Insyallah, penantian berbaloi, mudah mudahan amin"
Lepas tu aku sms along@shah..." Along, i nak ke KLIA ni...takutttt sgt, lemah lutut :( "
Then he replied " you boleh punya..today is the best day for you in 2012 ;) "
Lega...rasa lega yg amat bila dpt sms mcm tu dpt kata2 semangat..
ok aku dah naik bas pkl 3 ptg then selamat sampai pkl 4 ptg kat KLIA.syukur selamat. but yea aku tgu kat KLIA .....penuh kesabaran, tik tok tik tok tik tok tik tok tik tok
then aku lepak la dkt kerusi menunggu dekat dgn emirates counter sbb nak tgu Mr Labu sampai...so aku boleh nampak la kelibat dia. tiba2 dtg satu grp family ni...duk dekat bersebelahan dgn aku...ramai jugak dlm 10 org mcm tu. tp aku buat hal sendiri la..sebelah aku pakcik yg berusia buat lawak kat cucu dia " if u nak beli askrim and gula2 ask your daddy to buy for you, atok tak de duit..nanti 7 cucu atok kena beli bkn utk awak sorang je"
aku pun pandang pakcik sambil gelak2, lepas tu baru pakcik tu tegur aku " anak pg mana?" aku balas "x pg mana2 sy tgu kawan saya berlepas ke Sudan." pakcik tu pun balas " Sudan? menantu sy pun pg Sudan jugak, kwn anak tu keje mana?" then aku reply "Petronas. pakcik kawan sy tak tahu yg sy datang ni, sy nak buat surprise kat dia." pakcik tu pun panggil menantu dia dan pekenalkan kami berdua. nama dia Ezlin. dan mereka berdua tanya nama Mr Labu. then aku bg tahula nama sebenar dia. oooooo ya allah dunia ni sungguh kecil. Ezlin adalah kawan baik pada Mr Labu yes..dia satu Petronas dgn Mr Labu. Ezlin ckp kat aku yg dia dah sms Mr Labu and Mr Labu dlm perjalanan,aku ckp kat Ezlin jgn bagi tahu yg aku ada kat sini sbb aku nak buat surprise kat dia. Pakcik tu sempat berseloroh dgn aku. " nape anak tak buat surprise pegi Sudan?' aku jawab sambil menyengih " sy tak mampu pakcik setakat KLIA ni je la saya mampu pegi dan buat surprise kat dia." then lepas tu pakcik and Ezlin with family pg check in bag masa tu dah pkl 5.45 pm. Counter tutup dlm pkl 6 ptg.
yes frm 4 pm until 6 pm...aku tgu penuh kesabaran...sungguh! dia dtg lambat...aku nampak kelibat dia berlari2 anak.so aku tak ganggu dia masa tu....dia org terakhir sekali check in. lepas tu dia pg bungkus bag dia yg banyak2 tu. ya allah memang dia kelam kabut. but yea im still waiting.
Lepas tu...bila aku tgk keadaan dah ok sikit aku call dia and tanya mcm2 and putar belit sikit2...hehe then aku ckp kat dia aku ada kat KLIA. hmmm terkejut dia. then he comes out frm check in counter and direct ke departure gate area. kat situ la kita berjumpa.Dari jauh aku dah nampak dia with his parents...hah korang tak tahu masa ni la jantung aku nak tercabut la..senak perut la..sakit perut la...pening kepala la...lutut longlai la..but deep in my heart...aku berdoa byk2 moga permudah kan segala urusan...hanya allah je mengetahui niat aku.
Akhirnya aku dpt berjumpa dgn dia..Yup i can saw his face, surprise and blushing dan Mr Labu kenal kan parents dia kat aku. alhamdulilah parents dia sungguh ramah dan sporting, Mama dia ada tanya soalan sikit2.Lepas tu Mr Labu dah ckp " i need to go" terus hati aku jadi 'melt' aku menjerit dlm hati...'boleh tak jgn pegi?" tp yg terkeluar dari mulut aku tetiba ialah " biarlah i pg Sudan u tak yah pg duk kat KL je" what the....apa punya soalan la ni...nak je aku ketuk kepala aku masa tu! arghhh. tp dia senyum je. agaknya dia nampak kot aku nerbes hehe opss sebelum dia berjalan ke arah departure gate tu aku bg Kad...;) aku sebenarnya boleh bg card tu masa dia dtg umah aku sebelum ni tp aku shj je buat gitu...u know what aku bg card tu depan parents dia...wooo daring sungguh aku hahaha tp masa dia terima card tu mesti kepala otak dia ingat kad cinta..oh no no...Mr Labu i bukan jiwang karat!
lepas tu Mr Labu dah check in ke Departure gate tu and dia melambai2 ke arah kami.
masa dia berjalan sambil menarik beg dia ke Passport Gate..aku boleh nampak dia tertoleh 2-3 kali masa nak masuk ke Passport gate, hinggakan polis kat situ tersengeh2 tgk gelagat kami and yup i felt something, berkata2 dlm hati.." i will miss you and till we meet again" ;(
Me, his mother and father berdiri seiring kat tepi Departure gate sambil tgk dia berlalu pergi. Lepas tu bapa dia and mama dia berborak dgn aku...apa kami borak? rahsia...;) sebelum aku balik tu aku sempat bg kuih deram frm Melaka. mesti org tua2 suka. Yes his mom and his dad sgt suka.korang tak tahu kuih deram tu apa pi cari kat google. For me its beautiful moment, tak pernah akan aku lupakan pada saat 31 Dec 2012. The best day for me. Alhamdulilah. Allah permudahkan segala urusan dan aku belajar erti kesabaran.
Alhamdulilah kerana niat yg baik dan doa yg tak putus2 moga di permudahkan segala dan urusan. Selepas sembahyang aku sentiasa minta yg satu ini...jika dia utk ku,.temukan la kami dgn apa cara sekali pun, dan permudahkan segalanya. tetapi jika dia bukan utk ku..jauhkan lah dari pandanganku...allah mendengar doaku dan sudah tunaikan permintaan ku. allahuakbar. sungguh besar sekali hikmahnya.
for me kalau niat jujur dan ikhlas insyallah semua akan ok.dan sentiasa berusaha dan bertawakal.kita tak boleh mengharapkan sebelah pihak shj yg berusaha lebih.tetapi kita juga harus lakukan sesuatu utk dia dan hargai dia. percayalah dia sentiasa akan ingatkan perkara itu walaupun sekecil mana kita lakukan utk dia. tetapi harus lakukan dgn masih beradap dan menjaga tatasusila dan jgn sesekali melampaui batasan. yang penting niat kena betul.
yes..go for it gurl....;)
lepas tu Mr Labu dah check in ke Departure gate tu and dia melambai2 ke arah kami.
masa dia berjalan sambil menarik beg dia ke Passport Gate..aku boleh nampak dia tertoleh 2-3 kali masa nak masuk ke Passport gate, hinggakan polis kat situ tersengeh2 tgk gelagat kami and yup i felt something, berkata2 dlm hati.." i will miss you and till we meet again" ;(
Me, his mother and father berdiri seiring kat tepi Departure gate sambil tgk dia berlalu pergi. Lepas tu bapa dia and mama dia berborak dgn aku...apa kami borak? rahsia...;) sebelum aku balik tu aku sempat bg kuih deram frm Melaka. mesti org tua2 suka. Yes his mom and his dad sgt suka.korang tak tahu kuih deram tu apa pi cari kat google. For me its beautiful moment, tak pernah akan aku lupakan pada saat 31 Dec 2012. The best day for me. Alhamdulilah. Allah permudahkan segala urusan dan aku belajar erti kesabaran.
Alhamdulilah kerana niat yg baik dan doa yg tak putus2 moga di permudahkan segala dan urusan. Selepas sembahyang aku sentiasa minta yg satu ini...jika dia utk ku,.temukan la kami dgn apa cara sekali pun, dan permudahkan segalanya. tetapi jika dia bukan utk ku..jauhkan lah dari pandanganku...allah mendengar doaku dan sudah tunaikan permintaan ku. allahuakbar. sungguh besar sekali hikmahnya.
yes..go for it gurl....;)
. .p/s He'll think im so cute for doing it this * wink*
12/27/12
Penyanyi Alyah bengang...pulok!
Rizman Ruzaini dan juga Hatta Dolmat.Kedua mereka yang pernah mereka baju untuk artis-artis terkenal seperti, Datuk Siti Nurhaliza, Erra Fazira dan ramai lagi telah meluahkan rasa tidak puas hati apabila Alyah dikatakan tidak menghargai penat lelah dan hasil kerja mereka. Ia berpunca apabila baju yang direka oleh Rizman Ruzaini dan Hatta Dolmat tidak dipakai oleh Alyah ketika Anugerah Planet Muzik 2012 (APM 2012) walaupun mereka berdua sudah pun menyiapkannya.
Maruah saya sudah dipijak-pijak. Mereka telah mengaibkan saya dengan kata-kata yang kurang manis. Buat apa saya perlu memohon maaf tentang perkara itu kerana ia telah dibayar dengan kata-kata hinaan yang diberikan mereka. Belum sempat saya nak terangkan sebab-sebab saya tidak memakai pakaian rekaan tersebut, mereka telah menghentam saya di Twitter. Saya rasa dihina.”
Alyah walau bagaimana pun menjelaskan sebab utama dia tidak dapat memakai baju tersebut adalah kerana beberapa masalah kecil seperti zip dan juga dibahagian lain.
“Saya bukannya seorang yang suka melarikan diri daripada masalah. Ada sebab-sebabnya kenapa saya tidak memakai pakaian mereka dan saya enggan memperbesarkan perkara ini. Tambah pula Hatta dan Rizman Rizman telah banyak membantu menaja pakaian saya selama ini, jadi saya tak mahulah nak memburukkan keadaan.
“Jika mereka mengatakan saya tamak kerana ingin menggunakan khidmat ramai pereka fesyen hanya untuk sebuah acara cahaja. siapa yang pernah bekerja dengan saya, mereka akan tahu, setiap majlis anugerah, saya akan bertukar tiga pakaian.”
Tp memang tak patut pun masuk twitter/fb org lepas tu meroyan tak tentu pasal. ( aku nih tak suka org meroyan tak tentu pasal) org sepatutnya membuat hubungan yg baik dgn sesama sendiri.aku tak paham dgn designer zaman sekarang, kadang2 diorang melampau,kononnya setakat sponsor bj Siti Nurhaliza je dah berlagak diva..erkk pleaseeee!
Alya pun satu minta both HDC and RR sponsor sape suh!!!!!. lepas tu ko juga request for sponsorship from others designers, selain HDC and RR. Kenapa perlu minta sponsor banyak-banyak when you only want to wear 1 pcs for the event??????? sampai skang aku tak phm!
aku meluat dgn gologan2 species kecoh...dan meyampah dgn golongan yg meroyan kat twitter dan fb!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Izman@ Labu 4 Nov
People will wish you Happy Birthday with lots of gifts, wishing and pleasantries. But I will wish you Happy Birthday in my own special way by saying a prayer and throwing it up in the clouds so it reaches straight to the Allah. Moga dipanjangkan usia, dimurahkan rezeki dan diredhai allah. Many happy returns of the day.Thanks for making my life so interesting and so much fun. Life is boring when you are not around ;)..ngeeeee Happy Birthday dear ;)
Maimun 16/12 and Egie 29/12
There are two types of friends. The ones who befriend you on Facebook and the one who befriend in you in real life. Thank you for always standing by my side and supporting me. But even more than that, thank you for trusting and believing in me, even when I couldn't. I love you my friend and Happy birthday!
People will wish you Happy Birthday with lots of gifts, wishing and pleasantries. But I will wish you Happy Birthday in my own special way by saying a prayer and throwing it up in the clouds so it reaches straight to the Allah. Moga dipanjangkan usia, dimurahkan rezeki dan diredhai allah. Many happy returns of the day.Thanks for making my life so interesting and so much fun. Life is boring when you are not around ;)..ngeeeee Happy Birthday dear ;)
Maimun 16/12 and Egie 29/12
There are two types of friends. The ones who befriend you on Facebook and the one who befriend in you in real life. Thank you for always standing by my side and supporting me. But even more than that, thank you for trusting and believing in me, even when I couldn't. I love you my friend and Happy birthday!
12/19/12
Jupe and Zed Zaidi
alkisahnya Zed Zaidi and Jupe ( Pelakon Indon).ok nih aku nak kongsi sikit. Zed Zaidi Presiden Seniman, aku tahu niat dia betul tp caranya salah nak menegur org2 filem ni, bg aku lah Jupe tu bukan sape2..dia hanya sekadar pelakon biasa2 dan Pelakon tahap GRO, kalo dia mengutuk filem atau drama kita...bg aku diam adalah lebih baik.sebab org sebegini kita tak yah layan. sbb kalo layan dia lagi suka kontroversi. kalo yg mengkritik tu Christine Hakim dari Indonesia atau Natalie Portman frm Hollywood atau Shah Rukh Khan frm Bollywood, kita patut lakukan sesuatu dan menerima kekurangan drama/filem kita. tp kalo si Jupe ni yg byk cakap tp tak pernah menang award dan belakon filem tahap Porna..ko tak yah layan lagi bagussss....Abg kita ni si Zed pun satu hal..ko tak yah la bertwitter atau berfb nak main tembak2 dgn si Jupe, mcm org tak professional. ko tu dah la Presiden Seniman. aku tahu niat dia betul sbb marah sgt dgn status si Jupe tu tp bg aku kalo nak kenakan org...biarlah kena kan org cara halus dan telus. ( bukan jumpa bomoh tau) i means cara pro and matang.jadi org mcm si Jupe ni tak berani nak kacau kita. so sekarang Jupe tgh bontot panas sbb Abg Zed kita mengesahkan bahawa kemasukan pelakon Indonesia, Julia Perez ke negara ini untuk menjalani penggambaran adalah tanpa permit sah.
Menurut Zed Zaidi, perkara itu sudah dirujuk kepada bahagian pelesenan Sijil Perakuan Penggambaran (SPP), Perbadanan Kemajuan Filem Nasional Malaysia (Finas).
Beliau menjelaskan bahawa di bawah syarat Padu Citra, Julia wajib menjadi ahli bagi salah satu daripada tiga persatuan yang diiktiraf oleh Finas.
Isnin lalu, Julia atau Jupe yang sedang menjalani penggambaran filem arahan Murali Abdullah, Sumpahan Malam Pertama di Pulau Pinang mengeluarkan kenyataan di akaun Twitter yang menimbulkan kemarahan rakyat Malaysia.
“Nunggu giliran take... sambil nonton sinetron Malaysia... oh my GOD... Indonesia kita jauuh majuuu... kita mahuu sekaliii... bangga jadi orang Indonesia (tunggu giliran penggambaran... sambil menonton drama Malaysia. Oh tuhan... Indonesia kita jauh maju... kita maju sekali. Bangga jadi orang Indonesia),” katanya.
Kenyataan itu mendapat respons daripada Zed Zaidi yang menyedari tentang kenyataan pelakon Indonesia itu tiga hari kemudiannya.
“Gampang Julia Prez hina industri seni Malaysia!
Kenyataan Zed Zaidi itu mendapat maklum balas daripada dua pelakon tempatan iaitu Fauziah Nawi dan Noorkhiriah.
Fauziah menulis, “memang kita asyik sanjung dia orang sekarang pada muka 'Malaysian'. 'Nothing great about their sinetron'. Tepuk dada tanya selera.”
Noorkhiriah pula menulis, “ajak ramai lagi 'shooting' si sini... lepas itu apa jadi... tolonglah ambil tindakan... dah lah bayar mahal. Kita ini melukut tepi gantang nak bayaran tinggi.”
Jam 12.18 tengah hari semalam, Jupe mengeluarkan kenyataan balas yang mengait-ngaitkan isu penghinaan ke atas bekas Presiden Indonseia, BJ Habibie.
“Gara-gara bilang sinetron malay kurang bagus ane di haram-haram ke Malaysia. OK, semua politikus Malaysia harus keluar dari Indonesia kerana menghina BJ Habibie! Puas pas (Gara-gara kata drama Malaysia kurang bagus, saya diharam-haramkan ke Malaysia. Okey semua ahli politik Malaysia harus keluar dari Indonesia kerana menghina BJ Habibie,” katanya.
Pelakon Indonesia yang sinonim dengan jolokan seksi itu sering dipalit kontroversi baik di Indonesia mahupun di Malaysia.
Welcome 2013
I dont intend to provoke & hurt anyone's feelings, if readers find this blog offensive or annoying, i would appreciate it if you could leave this blog without any comments.Pls respect me and others readers. tqvm
12/8/11
Fibroids Signs and Symptoms/Diagnosis/Treatment
Symptoms of fibroids may include:
* Heavy Vaginal Bleeding — Excessively heavy or prolonged menstrual bleeding is a common symptom. Women describe soaking through sanitary protection in less than an hour, passing blood clots and being unable to leave the house during the heaviest day of flow. As a result, some women develop anemia, also known as a low blood count. Anemia can cause fatigue, headaches and lightheadedness.
If heavy bleeding interferes with your everyday activities or if you develop anemia, you should see your doctor to discuss fibroid treatment options.
* Pelvic Discomfort — Women with large fibroids may feel heaviness or pressure in their lower abdomen or pelvis. Often this is described as a vague discomfort rather than a sharp pain. Sometimes, the enlarged uterus makes it difficult to lie face down, bend over or exercise without discomfort.
* Pelvic Pain — A less common symptom is acute, severe pain. This occurs when a fibroid goes through a process called degeneration. Usually, the pain is localized to a specific spot and improves on its own within two to four weeks. Using a pain reliever, such as ibuprofen, can decrease the pain significantly. However, chronic pelvic pain can also occur. This type of pain is usually mild but persistent and confined to a specific area.
* Bladder Problems — The most common bladder symptom is needing to urinate frequently. A woman may wake up several times during the night to empty her bladder. Occasionally, women are unable to urinate despite a full bladder.
These symptoms are caused by fibroids pressing against the bladder, reducing its capacity for holding urine or blocking the outflow of urine. Treatment for bladder problems can provide great relief.
* Low Back Pain — Rarely, fibroids press against the muscles and nerves of the lower back and cause back pain. A large fibroid on the back surface of the uterus is more likely to cause back pain than a small fibroid within the uterine wall. Because back pain is so common, it is important to look for other causes of the pain before attributing it to fibroids.
* Rectal Pressure — Fibroids also can press against the rectum and cause a sensation of rectal fullness, difficulty having a bowel movement or pain with bowel movements. Sometimes, fibroids can lead to the development of a hemorrhoid.
* Discomfort or Pain With Sexual Intercourse — Fibroids can make sexual intercourse painful or uncomfortable. The pain may occur only in specific positions or during certain times of the menstrual cycle. Discomfort during intercourse is a significant issue. If your doctor doesn't ask you about this symptom, make sure you mention it.
Fibroids Diagnosis
Usually, fibroids are found during a routine gynecologic visit with a pelvic examination. A pelvic exam allows the doctor to feel the size and shape of the uterus; if it is enlarged or irregularly shaped, fibroids may be present. Or, you may notice new symptoms and inform your doctor.
If your doctor thinks you may have fibroids after performing the exam, there are several tests that can confirm the diagnosis. The first is usually an ultrasound. The other tests are more specialized and are only performed if needed to guide treatment options. Below is a brief description of each type of exam.
* Ultrasound — Many women are familiar with ultrasound from pregnancy, when it is used to evaluate the growing fetus. Ultrasound is also a safe and reliable way to look for fibroids. In the test, sound waves are used to create a picture of the uterus and ovaries. Ultrasound does not use radiation.
The procedure takes between 30 to 60 minutes. The initial portion of the exam is performed with the transducer on the abdomen. Conducting gel is placed on the skin, which feels wet and cool. The transducer is moved around as the technologist takes pictures of the uterus and ovaries.
The second portion of the exam is performed internally. You will need to empty your bladder first. A special ultrasound probe will then be placed in the vagina. It is usually not painful and is inserted like a tampon. Close-up pictures are then taken of the uterus, endometrium (the lining of the uterus) and ovaries. The radiologist reviews all the pictures and will report the results to your doctor.
* Saline Hysterosonography — This is also an ultrasound procedure which uses no radiation. The exam helps us better visualize the inside of the uterus and endometrium. Submucosal fibroids and polyps can easily be identified by this method.
The exam takes about half an hour. It is often performed right after the woman finishes her menstrual period. A small catheter is inserted through the cervix and a small balloon is inflated to hold it in place. Sterile saline is injected into the uterus and ultrasound pictures are taken. During the procedure you may experience some cramping, similar to menstrual cramps. The cramps may last for a short time after the procedure — this is normal.
* Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) — MRI is more expensive than ultrasound but gives doctors a reproducible, detailed picture of the number, size and exact location of the fibroids. Not all women with fibroids need an MRI. All patients that are being evaluated for a uterine artery embolization will get one, however. MRI uses a large, special magnet to take pictures of the body. The test does not use radiation.
The exam takes about 45 to 60 minutes, during which time you are asked to remain still. Before the study begins, an intravenous (IV) line is placed in your arm. You then lie down on a moveable bed. The big magnet is shaped like a donut, through which this moving bed passes. Contrast material is injected through the IV and pictures are taken of the pelvic area. These images will be reviewed by a radiologist who will report the findings to your doctor.
* Hysteroscopy — Diagnostic hysteroscopy is another procedure for seeing inside the uterus. The test can be performed in a doctor's office or in an operating room. Submucosal fibroids and polyps can be easily identified with this test. It takes 30 minutes to complete.
For the test, you will lie on your back with your feet in gynecology stirrups. A speculum is placed in the vagina. A long, slender telescope, called a hysteroscope, is gently inserted through the cervix into the uterine cavity. For ideal viewing, sterile saline or CO2 gas is introduced through the hysteroscope to inflate the cavity. Images of the lining of the uterus, the openings of the fallopian tubes, polyps and submucus fibroids are displayed on a TV monitor. Women experience mild cramps during the procedure. Taking ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin) one hour before the procedure can alleviate the discomfort.
Fibroids Treatment
Treatment for fibroids can range from no treatment at all to surgery. Unless fibroids are causing excessive bleeding, discomfort or bladder problems, treatment usually isn't necessary.
If you have fibroids, you should be evaluated periodically to review symptoms, and to monitor the fibroid and uterus size with abdominal and pelvic examinations. If you don't have symptoms, routine pelvic ultrasounds have very little benefit. Fibroids are likely to grow each year until menopause, but this isn't an indication that you need treatment, unless the change is accompanied by disabling symptoms.
The following are treatment options for fibroids:
Medications
Currently, the medications available for fibroids can temporarily improve symptoms but do not make the fibroids go away. For women with heavy bleeding, it is worth trying medication before undergoing a surgical procedure. Women with pressure symptoms caused by large fibroids won't benefit from any medicines currently available.
There are several promising new drugs on the horizon that will treat the fibroids themselves, not just the symptoms.
Contraceptive Pills and Progestational Agents
Women with heavy menstrual periods and fibroids are often prescribed hormonal medications to try to reduce bleeding and regulate the menstrual cycle. These medications will not shrink fibroids or make them grow at a faster rate.
If the medication has not improved your bleeding after three months, consult your doctor. Women over the age of 35 who smoke should not use oral contraceptives.
GnRH Agonists (Lupron)
GnRH agonists are a class of medications that temporarily shrink fibroids and stop heavy bleeding by blocking production of the female hormone, estrogen. Lupron is the most well known of these drugs. Although Lupron can improve fibroid symptoms, it causes unpleasant menopausal symptoms such as hot flashes. Long-term use can cause bone loss.
Lupron is recommended only for very specific cases. It may be recommended if you have heavy bleeding and serious anemia, and would need a blood transfusion during fibroid surgery. If you take Lupron for two to three months before surgery, your periods may temporarily stop and eliminate the need for a blood transfusion. Lupron also may be recommended if you have very large fibroids — greater than 10 to 12 centimeters — prior to fibroid surgery. Lupron should not be used solely to shrink fibroids unless surgery is planned, because fibroids will re-grow to their original size as soon as you stop taking Lupron.
Intrauterine Devices (IUD)
Although IUDs are typically used to prevent pregnancy, they have other benefits as well. An IUD that releases a small amount of hormone into the uterine cavity can decrease bleeding caused by fibroids.
An IUD can be inserted during a routine office appointment.
Myomectomy
A myomectomy is an operation to remove fibroids while preserving the uterus. For women who have fibroid symptoms and want to have children in the future, myomectomy is the best treatment option.
Myomectomy is very effective, but fibroids can re-grow. The younger you are and the more fibroids you have at the time of myomectomy, the more likely you are to develop fibroids again in the future. Women nearing menopause are the least likely to have recurring problems from fibroids after a myomectomy.
A myomectomy can be performed several different ways. Depending on the size, number and location of your fibroids, you may be eligible for an abdominal myomectomy, a laparoscopic myomectomy or a hysteroscopic myomectomy.
* Abdominal Myomectomy — During this operation, an incision is made through the skin on the lower abdomen (a "bikini cut"). The fibroids are removed from the wall of the uterus, and the uterine muscle is sewn back together using several layers of stitches. You will be asleep for the procedure. Most women spend two nights in the hospital and four to six weeks recovering at home.
* Laparoscopic Myomectomy — In a laparascopic myomectomy, four one-centimeter incisions are made in the lower abdomen: one at the belly button, one below the bikini line near the pubic hair, and one near each hip. The abdominal cavity is filled with carbon dioxide gas. A thin, lighted telescope is placed through an incision so the doctors can see the ovaries, fallopian tubes and uterus. Long instruments, inserted through the other incisions, are used to remove the fibroids. The uterine muscle is then sewn back together, the gas is released and the skin incisions are closed.
You will be asleep for the procedure. The recovery is shorter than for an abdominal myomectomy — typically, women spend one night in the hospital and two to four weeks recovering at home.
* Hysteroscopic Myomectomy — Only women with submucosal fibroids — fibroids that expand from the uterine wall into the uterine cavity — are eligible for this type of myomectomy. Fibroids located within the uterine wall cannot be removed with this technique.
During the procedure, you will lie on your back with your feet in gynecology stirrups. You will most likely be asleep for the procedure. A speculum is placed in the vagina and a long, slender telescope is placed through the cervix into the uterine cavity. The uterine cavity is filled with fluid to lift apart the walls of the uterus. Instruments passed through the hysteroscope are used to shave off the submucosal fibroids.
This is an out-patient procedure, and you may go home after several hours of observation in the recovery room. Most women spend one to four days resting at home to recover.
Read more about myomectomy.
Hysterectomy
Hysterectomy is a major surgical procedure in which the uterus is removed. Many women choose hysterectomy to definitively resolve their fibroid symptoms. After hysterectomy, menstrual bleeding stops, pelvic pressure is relieved, frequent urination improves and new fibroids cannot grow. A woman can no longer become pregnant after a hysterectomy.
The ovaries are not necessarily removed during a hysterectomy. Generally, if a woman is in menopause or close to menopause, the ovaries are removed. The ovaries may also be removed if they look abnormal or if the patient wants to decrease her chance of developing ovarian cancer later in life. In pre-menopausal women, removal of the ovaries can cause hot flashes, vaginal dryness and other symptoms. You should discuss the pros and cons of ovarian removal with your doctor.
There are several hyterectomy surgical approaches: a vaginal hysterectomy, an abdominal hysterectomy and a laparoscopic hysterectomy. The choice of procedure will depend on the size of the uterus and several other factors.
* Vaginal Hysterectomy — A vaginal hysterectomy is performed by removing the uterus through the vagina, rather than through an incision on the abdomen. To be eligible for a vaginal hysterectomy, your uterus cannot be too large.
You will be asleep for the procedure. Most women stay two nights in the hospital. The recovery involves significant pain for 24 hours and mild pain for 10 days. Full recovery usually takes four weeks.
* Abdominal Hysterectomy — In an abdominal hysterectomy, the uterus is removed through a horizontal incision on the lower abdomen, called a "bikini cut." If the uterus is very large or if there is a scar from an earlier operation, it may be necessary to make a vertical incision instead.
A total abdominal hysterectomy means removing the uterus and the cervix. Women who have had abnormal pap smears are usually encouraged to have their cervix removed. A subtotal or supra-cervical hysterectomy means removing only the upper part of the uterus. Women who retain their cervix may have less bladder leakage and vaginal relaxation later in life; however, this has not been scientifically proven. Women who have had a supra-cervical hysterectomy will continue to need periodic pap smears. In addition, some women will have monthly spotting or light bleeding if endometrial glands are still embedded in the cervical tissue.
You will be asleep during the procedure. Most women spend three nights in the hospital and six weeks recovering at home. Some women experience a complication that results in a longer recovery time.
* Laparoscopic Hysterectomy — This is a new procedure in which the uterus is removed through very small incisions on the lower abdomen. The cervix remains in place. Women with large fibroids or a large uterus may not be candidates for a laparoscopic hysterectomy.
In the procedure, four one-centimeter incisions are made in the lower abdomen: one at the belly button, one below the bikini line near the pubic hair, and one near each hip. The abdominal cavity is filled with carbon dioxide gas. A thin, lighted telescope is placed through an incision so the doctors can see the ovaries, fallopian tubes and uterus. Long instruments, inserted through the other incisions, are used to remove the uterus. A special instrument is used to cut the uterus into smaller segments for removal through the small incisions. At the end of the procedure, the gas is released and the skin incisions are closed.
You will be asleep during the procedure. Most women spend one night in the hospital and two to four weeks recovering at home.
Read more about hysterectomy.
Uterine Artery Embolization (UAE)
Uterine artery embolization is a relatively new procedure and an alternative to open surgery for fibroids. Embolization is a technique that blocks the blood flow to the fibroid or fibroids, causing them to shrink and die. This also often decreases menstrual bleeding and symptoms of pain, pressure, urinary frequency or constipation.
UAE is performed in a radiology suite rather than an operating room, by an interventional radiologist. An intravenous (IV) line will be placed before beginning the procedure, and you will be sedated. You will remain awake, but sleepy, throughout the procedure.
A needle is placed in an artery in your leg, at the groin crease. A small catheter is then placed into the artery and X-rays are taken of the arteries — a test called an arteriogram — that supply the fibroids. The catheter is then used to select these arteries and slowly inject particles called polyvinyl alcohol, which are the size of a sand grain. The particles block the flow of blood. After the left and right uterine arteries are embolized, another arteriogram is performed to confirm the procedure is complete.
Afterward, you must rest in bed for six hours, lying flat with your leg straight. The amount of pain patients experience varies. The most significant pain usually occurs immediately following the procedure and over the next six hours. Patients usually stay overnight in the hospital, so we can monitor the arterial access site and provide adequate pain control. You will be discharged the next morning. Most women can return to full activity in a week.
When blood flow to the fibroid is blocked, the fibroid gets no oxygen and will begin to die. This process happens over days to months. During this time the fibroid shrinks by about 40 to 50 percent and the uterus by about 30 to 40 percent. Our experience and the scientific literature suggest that symptoms will improve in 80 to 90 percent of patients. For some, UAE is ineffective. Serious complications occur in less then four percent of patients.
* Heavy Vaginal Bleeding — Excessively heavy or prolonged menstrual bleeding is a common symptom. Women describe soaking through sanitary protection in less than an hour, passing blood clots and being unable to leave the house during the heaviest day of flow. As a result, some women develop anemia, also known as a low blood count. Anemia can cause fatigue, headaches and lightheadedness.
If heavy bleeding interferes with your everyday activities or if you develop anemia, you should see your doctor to discuss fibroid treatment options.
* Pelvic Discomfort — Women with large fibroids may feel heaviness or pressure in their lower abdomen or pelvis. Often this is described as a vague discomfort rather than a sharp pain. Sometimes, the enlarged uterus makes it difficult to lie face down, bend over or exercise without discomfort.
* Pelvic Pain — A less common symptom is acute, severe pain. This occurs when a fibroid goes through a process called degeneration. Usually, the pain is localized to a specific spot and improves on its own within two to four weeks. Using a pain reliever, such as ibuprofen, can decrease the pain significantly. However, chronic pelvic pain can also occur. This type of pain is usually mild but persistent and confined to a specific area.
* Bladder Problems — The most common bladder symptom is needing to urinate frequently. A woman may wake up several times during the night to empty her bladder. Occasionally, women are unable to urinate despite a full bladder.
These symptoms are caused by fibroids pressing against the bladder, reducing its capacity for holding urine or blocking the outflow of urine. Treatment for bladder problems can provide great relief.
* Low Back Pain — Rarely, fibroids press against the muscles and nerves of the lower back and cause back pain. A large fibroid on the back surface of the uterus is more likely to cause back pain than a small fibroid within the uterine wall. Because back pain is so common, it is important to look for other causes of the pain before attributing it to fibroids.
* Rectal Pressure — Fibroids also can press against the rectum and cause a sensation of rectal fullness, difficulty having a bowel movement or pain with bowel movements. Sometimes, fibroids can lead to the development of a hemorrhoid.
* Discomfort or Pain With Sexual Intercourse — Fibroids can make sexual intercourse painful or uncomfortable. The pain may occur only in specific positions or during certain times of the menstrual cycle. Discomfort during intercourse is a significant issue. If your doctor doesn't ask you about this symptom, make sure you mention it.
Fibroids Diagnosis
Usually, fibroids are found during a routine gynecologic visit with a pelvic examination. A pelvic exam allows the doctor to feel the size and shape of the uterus; if it is enlarged or irregularly shaped, fibroids may be present. Or, you may notice new symptoms and inform your doctor.
If your doctor thinks you may have fibroids after performing the exam, there are several tests that can confirm the diagnosis. The first is usually an ultrasound. The other tests are more specialized and are only performed if needed to guide treatment options. Below is a brief description of each type of exam.
* Ultrasound — Many women are familiar with ultrasound from pregnancy, when it is used to evaluate the growing fetus. Ultrasound is also a safe and reliable way to look for fibroids. In the test, sound waves are used to create a picture of the uterus and ovaries. Ultrasound does not use radiation.
The procedure takes between 30 to 60 minutes. The initial portion of the exam is performed with the transducer on the abdomen. Conducting gel is placed on the skin, which feels wet and cool. The transducer is moved around as the technologist takes pictures of the uterus and ovaries.
The second portion of the exam is performed internally. You will need to empty your bladder first. A special ultrasound probe will then be placed in the vagina. It is usually not painful and is inserted like a tampon. Close-up pictures are then taken of the uterus, endometrium (the lining of the uterus) and ovaries. The radiologist reviews all the pictures and will report the results to your doctor.
* Saline Hysterosonography — This is also an ultrasound procedure which uses no radiation. The exam helps us better visualize the inside of the uterus and endometrium. Submucosal fibroids and polyps can easily be identified by this method.
The exam takes about half an hour. It is often performed right after the woman finishes her menstrual period. A small catheter is inserted through the cervix and a small balloon is inflated to hold it in place. Sterile saline is injected into the uterus and ultrasound pictures are taken. During the procedure you may experience some cramping, similar to menstrual cramps. The cramps may last for a short time after the procedure — this is normal.
* Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) — MRI is more expensive than ultrasound but gives doctors a reproducible, detailed picture of the number, size and exact location of the fibroids. Not all women with fibroids need an MRI. All patients that are being evaluated for a uterine artery embolization will get one, however. MRI uses a large, special magnet to take pictures of the body. The test does not use radiation.
The exam takes about 45 to 60 minutes, during which time you are asked to remain still. Before the study begins, an intravenous (IV) line is placed in your arm. You then lie down on a moveable bed. The big magnet is shaped like a donut, through which this moving bed passes. Contrast material is injected through the IV and pictures are taken of the pelvic area. These images will be reviewed by a radiologist who will report the findings to your doctor.
* Hysteroscopy — Diagnostic hysteroscopy is another procedure for seeing inside the uterus. The test can be performed in a doctor's office or in an operating room. Submucosal fibroids and polyps can be easily identified with this test. It takes 30 minutes to complete.
For the test, you will lie on your back with your feet in gynecology stirrups. A speculum is placed in the vagina. A long, slender telescope, called a hysteroscope, is gently inserted through the cervix into the uterine cavity. For ideal viewing, sterile saline or CO2 gas is introduced through the hysteroscope to inflate the cavity. Images of the lining of the uterus, the openings of the fallopian tubes, polyps and submucus fibroids are displayed on a TV monitor. Women experience mild cramps during the procedure. Taking ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin) one hour before the procedure can alleviate the discomfort.
Fibroids Treatment
Treatment for fibroids can range from no treatment at all to surgery. Unless fibroids are causing excessive bleeding, discomfort or bladder problems, treatment usually isn't necessary.
If you have fibroids, you should be evaluated periodically to review symptoms, and to monitor the fibroid and uterus size with abdominal and pelvic examinations. If you don't have symptoms, routine pelvic ultrasounds have very little benefit. Fibroids are likely to grow each year until menopause, but this isn't an indication that you need treatment, unless the change is accompanied by disabling symptoms.
The following are treatment options for fibroids:
Medications
Currently, the medications available for fibroids can temporarily improve symptoms but do not make the fibroids go away. For women with heavy bleeding, it is worth trying medication before undergoing a surgical procedure. Women with pressure symptoms caused by large fibroids won't benefit from any medicines currently available.
There are several promising new drugs on the horizon that will treat the fibroids themselves, not just the symptoms.
Contraceptive Pills and Progestational Agents
Women with heavy menstrual periods and fibroids are often prescribed hormonal medications to try to reduce bleeding and regulate the menstrual cycle. These medications will not shrink fibroids or make them grow at a faster rate.
If the medication has not improved your bleeding after three months, consult your doctor. Women over the age of 35 who smoke should not use oral contraceptives.
GnRH Agonists (Lupron)
GnRH agonists are a class of medications that temporarily shrink fibroids and stop heavy bleeding by blocking production of the female hormone, estrogen. Lupron is the most well known of these drugs. Although Lupron can improve fibroid symptoms, it causes unpleasant menopausal symptoms such as hot flashes. Long-term use can cause bone loss.
Lupron is recommended only for very specific cases. It may be recommended if you have heavy bleeding and serious anemia, and would need a blood transfusion during fibroid surgery. If you take Lupron for two to three months before surgery, your periods may temporarily stop and eliminate the need for a blood transfusion. Lupron also may be recommended if you have very large fibroids — greater than 10 to 12 centimeters — prior to fibroid surgery. Lupron should not be used solely to shrink fibroids unless surgery is planned, because fibroids will re-grow to their original size as soon as you stop taking Lupron.
Intrauterine Devices (IUD)
Although IUDs are typically used to prevent pregnancy, they have other benefits as well. An IUD that releases a small amount of hormone into the uterine cavity can decrease bleeding caused by fibroids.
An IUD can be inserted during a routine office appointment.
Myomectomy
A myomectomy is an operation to remove fibroids while preserving the uterus. For women who have fibroid symptoms and want to have children in the future, myomectomy is the best treatment option.
Myomectomy is very effective, but fibroids can re-grow. The younger you are and the more fibroids you have at the time of myomectomy, the more likely you are to develop fibroids again in the future. Women nearing menopause are the least likely to have recurring problems from fibroids after a myomectomy.
A myomectomy can be performed several different ways. Depending on the size, number and location of your fibroids, you may be eligible for an abdominal myomectomy, a laparoscopic myomectomy or a hysteroscopic myomectomy.
* Abdominal Myomectomy — During this operation, an incision is made through the skin on the lower abdomen (a "bikini cut"). The fibroids are removed from the wall of the uterus, and the uterine muscle is sewn back together using several layers of stitches. You will be asleep for the procedure. Most women spend two nights in the hospital and four to six weeks recovering at home.
* Laparoscopic Myomectomy — In a laparascopic myomectomy, four one-centimeter incisions are made in the lower abdomen: one at the belly button, one below the bikini line near the pubic hair, and one near each hip. The abdominal cavity is filled with carbon dioxide gas. A thin, lighted telescope is placed through an incision so the doctors can see the ovaries, fallopian tubes and uterus. Long instruments, inserted through the other incisions, are used to remove the fibroids. The uterine muscle is then sewn back together, the gas is released and the skin incisions are closed.
You will be asleep for the procedure. The recovery is shorter than for an abdominal myomectomy — typically, women spend one night in the hospital and two to four weeks recovering at home.
* Hysteroscopic Myomectomy — Only women with submucosal fibroids — fibroids that expand from the uterine wall into the uterine cavity — are eligible for this type of myomectomy. Fibroids located within the uterine wall cannot be removed with this technique.
During the procedure, you will lie on your back with your feet in gynecology stirrups. You will most likely be asleep for the procedure. A speculum is placed in the vagina and a long, slender telescope is placed through the cervix into the uterine cavity. The uterine cavity is filled with fluid to lift apart the walls of the uterus. Instruments passed through the hysteroscope are used to shave off the submucosal fibroids.
This is an out-patient procedure, and you may go home after several hours of observation in the recovery room. Most women spend one to four days resting at home to recover.
Read more about myomectomy.
Hysterectomy
Hysterectomy is a major surgical procedure in which the uterus is removed. Many women choose hysterectomy to definitively resolve their fibroid symptoms. After hysterectomy, menstrual bleeding stops, pelvic pressure is relieved, frequent urination improves and new fibroids cannot grow. A woman can no longer become pregnant after a hysterectomy.
The ovaries are not necessarily removed during a hysterectomy. Generally, if a woman is in menopause or close to menopause, the ovaries are removed. The ovaries may also be removed if they look abnormal or if the patient wants to decrease her chance of developing ovarian cancer later in life. In pre-menopausal women, removal of the ovaries can cause hot flashes, vaginal dryness and other symptoms. You should discuss the pros and cons of ovarian removal with your doctor.
There are several hyterectomy surgical approaches: a vaginal hysterectomy, an abdominal hysterectomy and a laparoscopic hysterectomy. The choice of procedure will depend on the size of the uterus and several other factors.
* Vaginal Hysterectomy — A vaginal hysterectomy is performed by removing the uterus through the vagina, rather than through an incision on the abdomen. To be eligible for a vaginal hysterectomy, your uterus cannot be too large.
You will be asleep for the procedure. Most women stay two nights in the hospital. The recovery involves significant pain for 24 hours and mild pain for 10 days. Full recovery usually takes four weeks.
* Abdominal Hysterectomy — In an abdominal hysterectomy, the uterus is removed through a horizontal incision on the lower abdomen, called a "bikini cut." If the uterus is very large or if there is a scar from an earlier operation, it may be necessary to make a vertical incision instead.
A total abdominal hysterectomy means removing the uterus and the cervix. Women who have had abnormal pap smears are usually encouraged to have their cervix removed. A subtotal or supra-cervical hysterectomy means removing only the upper part of the uterus. Women who retain their cervix may have less bladder leakage and vaginal relaxation later in life; however, this has not been scientifically proven. Women who have had a supra-cervical hysterectomy will continue to need periodic pap smears. In addition, some women will have monthly spotting or light bleeding if endometrial glands are still embedded in the cervical tissue.
You will be asleep during the procedure. Most women spend three nights in the hospital and six weeks recovering at home. Some women experience a complication that results in a longer recovery time.
* Laparoscopic Hysterectomy — This is a new procedure in which the uterus is removed through very small incisions on the lower abdomen. The cervix remains in place. Women with large fibroids or a large uterus may not be candidates for a laparoscopic hysterectomy.
In the procedure, four one-centimeter incisions are made in the lower abdomen: one at the belly button, one below the bikini line near the pubic hair, and one near each hip. The abdominal cavity is filled with carbon dioxide gas. A thin, lighted telescope is placed through an incision so the doctors can see the ovaries, fallopian tubes and uterus. Long instruments, inserted through the other incisions, are used to remove the uterus. A special instrument is used to cut the uterus into smaller segments for removal through the small incisions. At the end of the procedure, the gas is released and the skin incisions are closed.
You will be asleep during the procedure. Most women spend one night in the hospital and two to four weeks recovering at home.
Read more about hysterectomy.
Uterine Artery Embolization (UAE)
Uterine artery embolization is a relatively new procedure and an alternative to open surgery for fibroids. Embolization is a technique that blocks the blood flow to the fibroid or fibroids, causing them to shrink and die. This also often decreases menstrual bleeding and symptoms of pain, pressure, urinary frequency or constipation.
UAE is performed in a radiology suite rather than an operating room, by an interventional radiologist. An intravenous (IV) line will be placed before beginning the procedure, and you will be sedated. You will remain awake, but sleepy, throughout the procedure.
A needle is placed in an artery in your leg, at the groin crease. A small catheter is then placed into the artery and X-rays are taken of the arteries — a test called an arteriogram — that supply the fibroids. The catheter is then used to select these arteries and slowly inject particles called polyvinyl alcohol, which are the size of a sand grain. The particles block the flow of blood. After the left and right uterine arteries are embolized, another arteriogram is performed to confirm the procedure is complete.
Afterward, you must rest in bed for six hours, lying flat with your leg straight. The amount of pain patients experience varies. The most significant pain usually occurs immediately following the procedure and over the next six hours. Patients usually stay overnight in the hospital, so we can monitor the arterial access site and provide adequate pain control. You will be discharged the next morning. Most women can return to full activity in a week.
When blood flow to the fibroid is blocked, the fibroid gets no oxygen and will begin to die. This process happens over days to months. During this time the fibroid shrinks by about 40 to 50 percent and the uterus by about 30 to 40 percent. Our experience and the scientific literature suggest that symptoms will improve in 80 to 90 percent of patients. For some, UAE is ineffective. Serious complications occur in less then four percent of patients.
12/6/11
Bantu kanak-kanak HIVFathiiah Hamzah adalah The Ultimate Fun Fearless Fabulous Woman 2011
Project Coordinatordaripada Rumah Solehah, Fathiiah Hamzah kerana telah dianugerahkan The Ultimate FUN FEARLESS FABULOUS Woman 2011. Fathiiah adalah lulusan daripada Sains Manusia daripada Universiti Islam Antarabangsa (UIA) dan membawa perubahan kepada kanak-kanak di Rumah Solehah dengan memperkenalkan sistem stok perubatan yang lebih efisyen. Aku berpuas hati kerana dia menang sbb menjaga kanak2 HIV di Rumah Solehah.
Bukan ramai orang yang berani dan sanggup bekerja dengan kanak-kanak yang dijangkiti HIV.
11/23/11
Europe May 2011
Akhirnya dapt jejak kaki ke London and Paris...speechless!
mcm mimpi...TP KENYATAAN ;) I prefer ke London dari Paris coz if nak shopping London lebih murah dari Paris.korang bayangkan if nak beli roti kebab 5 pound= RM 25.00 if duit Euro U all hv to pay EURO 10 = RM 40.00 ada beza kan?
aku bwk duit mcm gaji sebulan ermmmmm......tak cukup tau. so tak shopping byk pun sekadar beli apa yg patut. next plan nak pg Swiss or Rome. ewwww best tp dah start kumpul duit ( aku nih selalu pi Travel bila la nak kahwin nih. Sigh!)
ada few gambr kat FB aku.korang layan jer la.....
11/7/11
SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDILADHA
Hey..Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Adha...selamat berkorban dan berhijrah ke arah kebaikan.
Doa kan aku agar aku dapt membuat perubahan terbesar dlm hidup ku...moga aku dapat berhijab & dpt mengerjakan haji...cinta ku kepada agamaku, allah dan rasullah, moga percintaan ku ini dapat mempermudahkan segalanya..allah sentiasa bersama kita...doa, bertawakal, berusaha ke arah kebaikan itu adalah satu pahala yg sgt besar.
jika kita ada niat pun sudah cukup baik sebenarnya.;)
Doa kan aku agar aku dapt membuat perubahan terbesar dlm hidup ku...moga aku dapat berhijab & dpt mengerjakan haji...cinta ku kepada agamaku, allah dan rasullah, moga percintaan ku ini dapat mempermudahkan segalanya..allah sentiasa bersama kita...doa, bertawakal, berusaha ke arah kebaikan itu adalah satu pahala yg sgt besar.
jika kita ada niat pun sudah cukup baik sebenarnya.;)
9/3/08
RHBIM vs Amanah Raya
Masa nih aku gelak sebab semua org nak bola....
curi bola frm her....
yes...bola masuk kandang....huhuuhu
huh...main ganas minah nih...
staff rhbim
Guys..rhbim and amanah raya...8/4/08
RHB vs CAGAMAS
Last week on 1 August 2008, di Padang One Utama kami vs with Cagamas yeeehhaaaaa kami memang beb! 4-2 hehheh i heard that diorang first time join futsal...tp nampak mcm teror je...aku plak tak sampai 10 minit main keluar padang sebab'pukok' aku injet...woooo sakit nya tuhan jer tau..kunun nya nak buat lompatan'harimau' ...apa punya lompatan arrr.....nasib sekejap je, lepas tu Hwee May suh aku masuk padang balik, damn! kali nih aku nak buat lompatan 'satria' plak...adeh...tulang rusuk aku plak injet..tp aku bertahan sebab aku kan 'satria' waja...hehehheh tp ok lar...cuma aku tak main puas je mau tak 2 ke 3 kali kuar padang....
Actually main futsal nih kena training byk lar....baru ada skills ...kelemahan aku ialah sepak bola tak solid and bila try tendang bola nak masuk gol mesti bola tu terpelanting ke tiang....haruuuuu betulll...byk kali ada peluang tapi aku tak rebut peluang itu.yg kelebihan aku if stamina aku byk giler...aku ble main sampai satu jam non-stop....moto kami ialah 'NAK MENANG'....apa pun aku seronok main futsal nih segala penat lelah kita bekerja dapat kita enjoy bersama kawan2....lepas nih si Asnida sibuk nak friendly dgn kami semua...nanti aku pikirkan yer!7/23/08
RHB vs EPF
helloo..last week kami ade tournament kat Padang, One Utama dari pukul 8.00-10.30 mlm. lawan kami Epf women but aku salute kat dorang sebab diorang ada skills. teror beb...kami kalah 8-2 but diorang kata lawan balik soon before puasa.... kami sahut cabaran itu....;-) diorang muda2 dari umur 20 an kami semua nie dah dekat 30 an...hehehheh
Before main futsal aku urut kaki aku dgn minyak panas, sebab aku lupa nak warm up. so itu adalah tips yg aku bg kat staff2 RHB, sebab aku kan suka panjat gunung so before panjat tu letak la minyak panas banyak2....jadi minyak itu yg akan warm up segala urat2 kaki itu...
my team ;-)
our group..
EPF AND RHB team
Before main futsal aku urut kaki aku dgn minyak panas, sebab aku lupa nak warm up. so itu adalah tips yg aku bg kat staff2 RHB, sebab aku kan suka panjat gunung so before panjat tu letak la minyak panas banyak2....jadi minyak itu yg akan warm up segala urat2 kaki itu...
my team ;-)
our group..
EPF AND RHB team7/18/08
Training Futsal di One Utama Shopping Complex
Me,Hwee Mei,Kak Norli, Yan,Zairyn and Kak Azlina....
The Gedikkk gang frm RHB
tetap posing maut walaupun penat dan sakit kaki...
Futsal team frm RHB ...sape2 nak cabar with all silakan...kami sanggup menyahutnya....3-0 bleh?
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